Nobody in my conservative indian extended family is getting married/having kids but somehow everyone else is.

am i going crazy or are all my cousins secretly wanting to be childfree, marriage-free It seems all my friends, mutual friends (for context i live in the US and moved here as a child) are getting engaged/married. I have a very pretty cousin 1.5 year elder than me and there is 0 talks of her getting married, she lives in a tier 1 city in the north. Another cousin grew up in tier 1 and very blessed in the career dept and age 32 has no talks of marriage though my mom has whispered a few things abt her not being married. I then have two about early thirties cousins who grew up in a tier 2 city female cousins who got married at age 30 but still dont have kids yet. I also have a female cousin who is about 25 and grew up in a tier 2 city and nobody talks abt her marriage. but somehow all my american born raised friends and mutuals are getting engaged. My dad wants me to find a better paying job first before he finds a guy, my mom also says try to find a better job and that im still youngish at 28. She also said she had me and my bro easily at age 31 and 39, and that since i have regular normal periods I have time and that my friends who are getting married early have some fertility issue or their mother had fertility issue thats why marriage is so early for them. I wouldnt even mind an arranged marriage as long as there is a dating period, which is actually what i prefer. but im scared the older i get the smaller AM market will be especially abroad. Also for background i was always groomed for marriage, if i would cry as a teenager my mom would say when you get married whose gonna wipe your tears, my mother also told me as a teenager I would probably be married by 27. So Tbh idk what happened now maybe it's my relatives not marrying early so my parents dont care about my marriage or the pandemic ruined my parents perception of time.