Does anyone ever feel like the world is absolutely opposite of what reddit is?

I remember folks were debating whether girls and boys can be friends or not, as if it's really a debate in the real life, it's **not**. I haven't seen a single person reject friendship because they are of the opposite gender. It's such a stupid debate topic. People are actually finding and enjoying relationships which include both normal boys and normal women unlike reddit which is complaining about the "dating scene" 24/7 and Blaming the other gender. No women is labelled as "shy and feminine" infact the girls I've met are more chill and free than many men and many men are confident too. Many girls are also making the first move I've seen, I've also seen people having realistic standards and dating someone ugly.